So you’re felling alone but yet you cannot stomach a fully committed relationship. You want someone in your life but you don’t want them to boss you around and tell you what to do all day long. If this is you; then it sounds like you might not be ready for commitment just yet; and there is nothing wrong with that. But it doesn’t mean that you should stay alone and never get laid; after all we all need a bit of quality time to help our lives feel better; and living without sex can really become the most frustrating thing ever. So what can you do then? Well why not find yourself a fuck-buddy?
Naughty times are good
The truth is that we are not all made for commitment so you shouldn’t feel bad about it; in fact there are many men and women out there who just want to find that special friend they can have a good time with. Think about it; it’s the best of both worlds. Not only do you get the sex and light companionship; but you also still manage to keep your privacy and ‘me-time’ intact. And let’s face it; having sex with the same person is still more fun than just one-off hook-ups; as you get to discover that person sexually over time and the moments you have in bed just keep getting better. In fact the only issue is that you might actually get attached to this person in a lustful way; which can be pretty addictive in its own way.
Where do you look?
Your best bet is to find a partner (or more) close to home; that way you don’t need to travel too far to have fun with some local fuck buddies. This is not only convenient from an economic point of view as it will cost you less in transport; but it also means that you can have fun when the mood strikes you. Having to wait to have sex isn’t the ideal; and travelling a long distance to get laid might just take out some of that much needed sexual energy that you should really be reserving for your partner. So where do you find local fuck buddies? Beyond bars and nightclubs; your most likely bet is to look online for naughty dating websites. Those websites have increased a lot in popularity and they now have as many men as they have women who just want to have a good time. You can just filter your search by adding local parameters and who knows; you might just get lucky quicker than you think.
The one thing about having a fuck-buddy is that you still need to agree on certain rules. For example you should talk about whether or not you want to be exclusive to each other or whether it is OK to have other partners. You’re not getting fully committed but you still want to do things correctly; no lying and betraying; and most importantly always stay protected. The both of you might be there for a good time but things can still get out of hands if you don’t respect each other. So respect each other; enjoy the lust and always be honest about your feelings; as the last thing you want is for one to fall in love with the other if that love is not reciprocated. Just have fun until things get more complicated then move on from each other onto the next fuck-buddy; after all there are plenty of people to go around!